On the Hunt Faux Pas #2: Tried-but-still True?

By now, I have gone on several interviews and have picked up a few “tips and tricks” for answering some of the common interview questions: Tell me about yourself. Why do you want to work here? What is your greatest strength? Greatest weakness?  At the beginning stages of my job hunt process, I became fixated on trying to discover the “correct” responses to interview questions. Responses that would secure me the job, the “Pass Go and Collect $200” community cards.

I browsed and drew inspiration from examples from online community forums, blogs, and professional development websites. My relentless search to find “correct” answers made me realize that no matter how hard I tried or how many hours I spent, they did not exist. In fact, every result, post, and thread provided various responses claimed that their response was the best. Some even claimed that their responses were “tried-and-true.”

A suggested “tried-and-true” response is responding with  I am a perfectionist to the question of your greatest weakness. Being a perfectionist could suggest weaknesses like the inability to see the bigger picture, to work promptly, or to adapt to changes. By no means am I suggesting that perfectionists are not great people or employees, I am a perfectionist myself! But why is this response “tried-and-true?” Maybe perfectionism is a sought after quality despite its shortcomings. Perhaps it is a veiled strength that suggests that the interviewee has no weakness. Or it’s just too hard to argue against perfectionism.

But is perfectionism a weakness? For me, I consider my perfectionism to be one of my greatest assets. It inspires me to produce high quality, organized work and to exceed expectations. It is what drives me to work harder and better. So, if this is my response, I guess I am lying to myself and the interviewer…. which I am sure will set off their special lie detection powers. So, then how should I respond? Use the tried-and-true method or good ol’ honesty?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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On the Hunt Faux Pas #1: Everything and Anything

At first, my job hunt was tailored to specific expectations and standards based on my education, experiences, and interests. It was then narrowed further by my geographical preference. While I was aware that I was limiting my search, I did not fully understand the challenges that I would soon face. With the intention and hope to work close to home to help my parents for the first few years after graduation, I was determined to make it work. However, I soon came to realize that my interests had a geographical preference of its own and it was not near home.

However, I soon came to realize that my interests had a geographical preference of its own and it was not near home. This was a hard pill to swallow… on one hand, I was happy to be with my family but on the other hand, I was struggling to find opportunities that aligned with my interests. Sadly, this realization made me feel guilty for being home…

The bitterness of this realization sent my mind into a frenzy as I began to apply for anything and everything in order to make it work. I was applying for positions that I was overqualified for, underpaid, and even had no interest in. I was trying to hide my guilt by burrowing it in a heaping mess of applications just so I could convince myself that my unemployment status would be remedied soon. While I felt relieved that my resume was finally being noticed and that a stream of interview offers followed, it was quickly replaced by another wave of guilt. Guilt that I had compromised myself by convincing myself that passion was overrated. By applying for everything and anything, I started to lose my way. I was so fixated on getting a job that I was willing to put aside my passion, my hard work, and my self-worth.

The reality that I was chasing after opportunities because of desperation rather than passion was another hard pill to swallow. In a way, I feel ashamed for getting myself so caught up in the process… It took me a couple of months to stop myself and to take the time to reassess what my priorities and goals. I took a few days to be offline, away from my laptop, away from job postings, and away from my emails to restart my job hunt process.

Now I have a list of expectations and goals for my next career written down to remind me of my interests, my qualifications, and my self-worth. It also includes a list of organizations or companies to keep an eye on. This has helped re-focused my job hunt to be … purposeful.  I can feel the difference that this has made in my cover letters and interviews as I can easily speak to my interests and passion. While I do still wish to work close to home, I know now that it is not worth compromising myself and my passion.

Having widened my job search radius further, I am excited for the greater range and diversity of opportunities to apply for. Yet, in the meantime, I am happy to spend the time I have now to be with my family.

On the Hunt Faux Pas: Introduction

Despite having a masters, I feel pretty inadequate with the job hunt process. I was making all kinds of mistakes without realizing that they were in the first place. I left the graduation stage with a newly polished resume and confidence that I would easily land a job in the next few months. Yet, my naivete that led me to believe that a few sessions with the university career center staff and inspiring TED Talks would prepare me for the job hunt, the same naivete that would lead me to commit several faux pas.

While I could wallow in the embarrassments of my mistakes (which I do), I also thought that I could make my wallowing productive by writing about them in order to learn from them. And perhaps be a source of community for others to learn from my mistakes. So, without further ado, I present On the Hunt Faux Pas.